This might be helpful to anyone who works on any projects, personal or otherwise. I sometimes wish that people are more farsighted when planning for or working on anything. :)
http://www.informit.com/articles/article.asp?p=369224

Do you think it is possible to establishmarriage as a complimenting partnership between two forces who have decided to seek their fortunes and fates together, to merge resources and strengths as opposed to an institution that oppresses, represses, suppresses and depresses? There are so many conflicting and schizophrenic arguments going around about the value and problems of the marriage institution that it does require a strong constitution to remain sane.